Why Should Never Say ‘I Love You” To Your Partner At The Beginning Of Your Relationship

Starting a new relationship is always exciting as all you care about is how much your partner is just perfect and the feeling of having someone by your side whenever you need them is just wonderful. If you want to be successful in your relationship then you will need to consider how you approach certain things.
awkwardNothing makes a relationship last longer like caution and effort. Here are reasons why you should avoid saying ‘I love you’ at the beginning of your relationship:


Awkward

There is nothing more difficult at the beginning of a relationship than to be the one to initiate certain things. While some people can be very calm and easy about it to others it can be very difficult and actually a big deal.
Many risk being left in an awkward position after they have put their selves out to the dating world. So when you just getting started on your new relationship do not rush to say I love you, because it may leave you in a very awkward space and the other person might not feel that way. They might be far away from this position and you will be left embarrassed.
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Fake

When you rush saying this to your partner he might just answer you with “I love You” as well but it maybe because he does not want to put you in an awkward position by not answering. It will not be what he means but he is just being polite and considering your feelings.
For a relationship to be successful in the long run, it is very important that the two people stay true to one another. So take your time and do not force to hear the “I Love You” at an early stage of your relationship.

Stuck

If you do not want to get stuck in a position your are not interested in then do not rush to say “I Love You” to your partner. What might start off as a perfect relationship might end up not being it but just a crush.
You might find it difficult to ask them for a way out after confessing your love; truth is when you confessed you led them on.
However, if you stay in a relationship like this for long, it will take away all your happiness, and you will be in a relationship just for the sake of the other person

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Pressure

The last thing you want is to put too much pressure on your new partner, so saying I love you too soon might lead to just that and am sure it aint what you want.
The perfect relationship is where things naturally flow, and each partner feel that comfortable, a relationship full of love and trust but putting pressure on it will spoil everything so always take your time and let your partner get comfortable.

It is not very wise to confess this too soon, or your partner might come under too much pressure, freak out and/or run away.

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Difficult to believe

When it is difficult to believe what you are saying that only means either you said the three word too soon or you just faking it all the way.
To other love can be a joke but to some love is no joke and when they feel you joking about it they completely get turned off to prevent their heart from being broken
The last thing you want is your partner thinking that you are not true to them about your feelings or that you are faking everything in the relationship. In a relationship, timings for everything are very important.

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